Travel

Angkor, what?

They didn’t need to say it.  I read it all over their faces.  It was the day we sat down together to polish up the plans for our trip to SE Asia.  “We are going to see Angkor Wat —  a Hindu temple complex surrounded by a moat, built in the 12th Century by the King of Khmer.   Early explorers had come back with great stories about it, but nobody could get there to verify it, so nobody much believed them.”

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“How did it get lost?”somebody asked.  “Swallowed up by the Jungles,” I said in my spooky voice. (I always like to dazzle them with scary historical embellishments.)

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“Will we see Siamese cats in Siam?”  they digressed.   (I took a deep breath.)  “Nope – Siam is no longer.  It’s now called Thailand.  But we’re talking about the lost temple complex of Angkor Wat, sometimes known as the Seventh Wonder of the World.”  They weren’t dazzled yet, so I pulled out a few fun facts to try to get them in the mood for some AWE:

In 1860, Henri Mouhot, an explorer, had heard about a great Khmer temple lost in the jungles and was actually looking for beautiful birds when he came upon the temple.   Before cameras, explorers had only three ways to convey their discoveries:

Bring ‘em home, draw them or tell about them.

Even though others had found this complex earlier, there was no way to ‘bring it home’ and if they didn’t have skills to draw the thing or tell about it, well, few would believe the discoverers’ stories about what they saw.Facade_of_Angkor_Wat.jpg

Henri took his time to etch drawings of the temple complex and once the Western world saw his drawings and read his descriptions, Henri was set for a page in Wikipedia as the ‘finder of the lost temple.’    Others had beaten him, but Henri brought skills to the party!”

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“What about the Siamese Cats?” (I took another deep breath). “No cats here I don’t think – but lots of strange looking monkeys!”

The lesson here is about using what you’ve got:  Drawings are good, but  if you are trying to lure them to SE Asia, spooky temples and monkeys are a pretty sure bet.

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Dawn

Travel

Just a peek . . .

For the past three years, I have begged you to take a family trip.  Don’t you hate people that find something wonderful in their life and dog you until you do it?  Unless you are in the ‘planning stages of an adventure,’ I have failed.  So I’m trying a new tactic called “Just a Peak.”

Worse case is that you build your trivia knowledge without the total IQ putdown of Alex Trebek of Jeopardy. But best case is you will be tempted to go see for yourself.

We share so many funky photos with our Facebook friends, this blog will give you a little more background about our adventures which could potentially one day be your own adventures.

Boys in Angkor Watt.jpgWhat looks like a Cambodian Root Canal is actually the lost temple complex of Angkor Wat. How long was it lost?  Who took it??  How was it found?   Round trip tickets start at $670, but don’t book yet because there is so much more on the way.    But it doesn’t cost a thing to start planning next year’s trip with your family.

Talk Friday!

Dawn

Encouragement · Travel

Bug bites

One of the most difficult thing about bug bites, is you ever get to actually identify the little sucker that took a nip out of you.  Unless of course you were completely aware of the time and place he got into your skin.  Few of us ever are that lucky.

A bug burrowed under my skin, or bit me – I don’t know.  But I do know this:  ever since Ron and I went away together to the mountains last weekend, I have had the itch to plan another family adventure.  The travel bug strikes again.

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No amount of money —  no lottery, homestead exemption, tax refund or bonus can buy AWE.  You can get the Adventure part down, but unless you find a way to add in With Engagement, you end up with your version of the story and somebody laughing at you, not with you.  Take somebody who can validate your insanity.

We want to take advantage of our kids’ company as long as they will let us.  (Or have regrets for not spending enough time with one’s lost too soon.)  Sure, I look back on our world trip with them, every minute of every day for over six months, as pure joy, when one son punches a hole in my bubble to remind me:  “Mom, you said: ‘ I will never ever do this again’.”   You reflect:  I said a lot of nasty things when I was in labor too, but forgot them once I held my child. 

Once your kids are grown, all the ‘shoulda-woulda-couldas  won’t bring back a single opportunity with your young kids.   Take advantage of the travel bug bite now.  Begin planning for your next family adventure.  Go big – to lands where they don’t speak your language.  Even if it’s into untraveled parts of North America, mosey out West.  Take a ‘cah’ to New England.  Ya’ll come down south.  Or take a sweet ride to California, dude.

Start planning,  saving and setting goals now.    Nothing may ever be as satisfying as itchin’ that family travel bug bite.

Have an AWEsome weekend!

Dawn

Encouragement · Travel

Odd Ducks

Someone once said to me:  “Never criticize someone whose sin is different than your own.”  HEAVY!

We left for our world adventure as Catholics, and came back as Catholics.  But our tolerance for others  and their religions increased as we met them because we realized, we were meeting people, not products.

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When the Hirn family went to meet other people whose world we shared – in China, Thailand, Bosnia, Dubai, Cambodia, Vietnam, Japan, Africa, and beyond — we were the ‘odd ducks’!  The  strange round-eyed, translucent skinned family of five approached life ‘different’.  For goodness sake, we entered the Forbidden City passing a football back and forth, with no intention of being irreverent, but every intention of sticking together by keeping our eyes on each other.   We didn’t need to draw any extra attention to ourselves.  But if we could have translated Mandarin, we would have understood them to whisper:  “Here come mom and dad touring (off-season when they should have been working!)  with their three sons (THREE!!) who should have been in school.  It didn’t compute.

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We were somewhat of an oddity.

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In America, perhaps we would stare at strangers or walk away with a bit of discomfort because of their mannerisms, religion or dress.  But here we were embraced.  The odd ducks were fodder for paparazzi photos.  And everywhere we went, we were snapped, joined for selfies and, in general, treated like rock stars.

 

Those strangers turned friends who practiced Shintoism,  Buddhism, Taoism, Confucianism, Hinduism, Judiasm, and Muslim religions had been kind and loving to the odd duck American Catholic family from the beginning.

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When you travel, remember your backpack.  But even more importantly, check your countenance:   Countenance is the expression on your face that reflects the condition of your heart.  Embrace the odd ducks!

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Have a great week!

Dawn

Family · Travel

Cuttin’ back

People don’t like the idea of cuttin’ back.  We’re Americans.  We’re spenders!  If you gather the family together and tell them you are about to start a new program which would require everyone to spend less money and save more, you would definitely hear some disheartening groans.

But if you plop a nice family goal down on the table, attitudes quickly can change:

“Ok kids, here’s the scoop.  If we cut back on Pizza Delivery, Apps and other technology, movies, fast food, and eating out in general, we will be able to afford (get ready for your beefed up presentation)   . . . . . eight nights and seven days in glorious Dubai!”  Here’s where you slip in the posters of million dollar automobiles.  Then hold up a photo of Ski Dubai at the Mall of Emirates featuring a 60 metre high indoor mountain slope, and a 400-metre long ski run.  Hold up the next photo of the Dubai Autodrome  Go-cart Track, and simply ask: “Are you up for this?  How about a floating restaurant, or Wild Wadi Water Theme Park, one of the most advanced water parks in the world, or the beaches, the desert safaris and scuba diving, zoos . . . . .”

Now, readdress the corner-cutting ideas: Crank out the concept of Family Movie Night, featuring Hulu or Netflix, catered by your favorite frozen pizza.

Game night also works here and popcorn is a cheap stretch.  Mom’s and dads, invest in a good Yeti cup, and perk your own brew.  Ditch the plastic water bottles by filling up your Tervis, and buy snacks in bulk.  Costco is a good friend.

Cutting back almost always requires extra work. Consider the family dinner: You can have an excellent family dinner at a restaurant, but it won’t be cheap.  You can have a fast family dinner at a drive-thru and it may be cheap, but it won’t be excellent.  Or you can take your time, planning and preparing and cook your family dinner.  You will make it excellent and economical, but it won’t be fast.    Your choice:  a little extra time preparing dinner each night and Dubai 2017?   Or eating your way through your funds, leaving you with a ‘stay-cation’?  Just askin’.

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Talk soon!  Dawn

Encouragement · Family · Travel

The Party’s Over

“So,  what did you do this summer?”   How many times have you answered this question in the past two weeks? Yes,  the summer of 2016 is a thing-of-the-past, never to be repeated.  You made some great memories, but it’s time to begin planning again!  If you think it’s too early, ask yourself:  “Am I looking out the windshield of adventure or the rearview mirror?”

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You’ve got another vacation coming up in a little less than a year.  And beginning to plan for it now is not a moment too soon.

“We parents have but a handful of chances to create meaningful vacation memories for our kids, thanks to our crazy schedules and the ever-narrowing window when our kids will actually want to travel with us.”  Money, March 2016, Jonathan Adolph

ON YOUR MARK, GET SET, PLAN!  Get everyone involved.    Chances are better for you if you induct your entire family into vacation planning.  There are no bad ideas. Don’t put down anybody’s suggestion, but instead weigh the pros and cons of each family member’s choice.   Investigate!   Percolate excitement by showing photos, videos, whatever you can find to stimulate interest.    You should know by now there is no such thing as looking ‘too far into the future.’

It cost how much?   If you are choking on that thought, you’ve started looking in the wrong places.  Check out “shoulder season.”  This is travel jargon for “deep discounts in off-seasons rates.”  Choose quality days over quantity.  A four-day family adventure off-season often beats seven-days of beach chaos and clutter in-season.  The Norwegians say: “There’s no such thing as bad weather, just bad clothing!”  Think ahead.   Plan.  Check out special savings on GroupOn and Living Social, and sign up for email notifications from Kayak, Airfarewatchdog.com and TravelZoo.

Start saving.  Again, it’s never too early.  Mark a big jar Vacation Fund 2017 and ‘filler up!”  Build drama and anticipation!  Praise family participation, sacrifices and contributions.

Let’s talk Friday about “How to Cut Corners.”  I’ve got some great ideas!

Dawn

Adventure with Engagement AWE · Travel

Just Say “No”

RIO DE JANEIRO—“The single most difficult and dangerous maneuver in women’s gymnastics—and maybe the most daring of the entire Olympic Games—won’t be attempted by anyone on Team USA.” THE WALL STREET JOURNAL, 8/7/16 Cohen and Radnofsky

As the Olympic feats become more and more difficult, coaches ask themselves:  “When is enough, enough?”  “The Produnova vault is too dangerous,” say our US Gymnastics’ Team Members and Coaches. Sure it would get you some hefty points if it were done correctly.  But if not, you face death or paralysis.

Daredevils come in every shape and size, and to those who are Daredevil Travelers, we beg you to do your homework.  Find out about the dangers of the country you plan to visit before you book your trip.  When we traveled together as a family, our leader Ron, made sure the places we were going were relatively safe.  We knew we would not be tracking wild boar in Pakistan nor heading deep into the Sudan.  Lebanon and Syria were also on our ‘Just say “NO” list.’ And if you’re thinking of checking out that sweet little country that sits between Turkey and Russia, described as “the Alps meet the Mediterranean,” better find another song and get “Georgia off your mind.”

The world is full of wonders!  Before you travel, check with the US State Department www.travel.state.gov/alerts,  for alerts and tips.  Check out the site: www.lonelyplanet.com.

Do your homework to make sure the adventure outweighs the risks.  Terrorist attacks can happen anywhere in the world.  But make sure you are looking logically at the risk, not your own uncertainty of its degree. Life is full of danger.  After we lost our son in a car fire just a few miles from home, we realized, staying close to home is no guarantee of safety.   But planning ahead and common sense go a long way!

We still heartily recommend AWE – Adventure With Engagement.   But before you race toward your next international adventure –  or your next Produnova Vault, check out the risks.  And learn when to Just say “No.”

But to all the other stuff, remember:

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AWE baby!

Dawn

Adventure with Engagement AWE · Family · Travel

Flexible

“Blessed are the flexible; for though they are often bent out of shape, they shall not be broken.”

Probably won’t find that verse anywhere in the Bible, but it’s good theology.  And certainly good advice for any overwrought mom or dad.

These last days of summer have brought me right back to the good old 24/7 moments with my family when we took our 32 country, around the world adventure.  As I’ve told you, I have new respect for Dickens’ words in his book The Tale of Two Cities: “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.”  And here’s where I take personal responsibility for “it was the worst of times.”

I can truly admit that there were very few moments in 180 days and nights of our trip that I ever felt it was the worst of times.  Sometimes it was difficult, but isn’t it our job as parents to handle ‘difficult’ with one hand tied behind our backs?   It takes wise hindsight  (I pat myself on the back here) to realize  those times that were most difficult were more so  because I had lost flexibility.

Flexibility in any family travel adventure is vital!   If you see yourself as Captain, imagine  yourself first on the Exxon Valdez and realize, some things are simply unavoidable.  There were days when I did break.  I know that.  Ron knows that.  My kids know that.  But family adventures rarely go according to schedule.  So many of the things I remember – we all remember about the trip – are the things that happened when the schedule went haywire.

If I could have planned every step of the way, I would have missed so much.   We would have crossed every street in Beijing without being terrorized by motorcycles and traffic. We would have never gotten lost.   We would have found our way home ten minutes before we all got tired.  The guys would have loved all the food, no matter how strange it seemed, and they would never have argued or had meltdowns.  Ever!

But as I look back on the footage of our trip now, I realize how perfect those unscripted moments were.  When we checked out our re-runs, we didn’t just notice the one who had a  meltdown;  we noticed the brother reaching out to comfort the brother who was upset.

When it comes to AWE, Adventure With Engagement, focus upon the ‘engagement’ part. Adventures will get you to your destinations faster, but without engagement, you will miss some of the horsing around, jokes, funny mistakes and other ridiculous dilemmas.

Be blessed.  Be flexible.  Cut your family some slack.   After all, without flexibility, even angels’ wings don’t operate properly!

Dawn

Travel

The magic word

“America!  The land of the free and the home of the brave.”

That is my country!  I am free and I am brave.  And both of those facts hit home when we were headed north crossing the Bulgarian Border. Ron and I were driving a rental car with a German tag, which for some reason aroused suspicion.    As we approached the border, we followed the traffic circle just as we thought we should.  Turns out, we did it wrong and ended up cutting in line.  Now in America, aside from a few stray fingers, you can apologize and laugh it off.  At the Bulgarian border, not so much.

The border guard, angry dude that he was, rushed over to the passenger side of the car.  I rolled down my window and he began screaming.  SCREAMING!   “Turks!  Turks!”    I used my form of international sign language for ‘don’t worry, be happy!’ putting my fingers on the sides of my cheeks and pulling out a smile.  Apparently he didn’t understand my reference or appreciate my effort to bring a little levity into the situation.

The guard hauled back and through the open window, cold-cocked me!  I was stunned. He broke my glasses and my temple was bleeding.  The action that usually follows ‘stunned’ for me is ‘fight’, and in a swift motion I reached out, ripped off his tie and shouted “Americans, Americans!” and whipped out my passport.

When you are on foreign turf, neither word —  Abracadabbra nor Shazam — work as well as the magic word: Americans!   Suddenly there was the guard with a host of superior ‘big shots’ preparing to give us a ‘bloodless escort’ to the front of the line.  They coddled us and apologized profusely.  I gladly returned the guard’s tie and we went on our way.

Thank you America!   Because I belong to the land of the free, I can be brave.  But don’t underestimate the value of a smile.  Just don’t bring it to the Bulgarian border crossing.

Dawn

Adventure with Engagement AWE · Family · Travel

You spent how much??

Thirty-second summer recap:  Start, now!   Memorable family vacation?

Awkward side-stories that get funnier each time they are remembered? Good!  Now, how much money did you spend doing that? If you had to do it over again, would you?

Was your family trip an AWE trip, or just a get-away?  Mom’s know ‘the beach’ usually means just another kitchen and laundry location.  We have always looked back much more fondly at our Adventures With Engagement–traveling to unknown places with our family-than the long beach naps under the protection of umbrellas and 50 SPF sunscreen.     Nothing wrong with sand and sun, but those memories tend to fade faster than tans.

We’ve already told you the story of traveling with our family through thirty-two countries for six months.  We had an ulterior motive in ‘telling you.’  We hoped you would consider giving your family an adventure of a lifetime like we did.  If the idea still finds you stuck in neutral, consider putting yourself in gear with these facts: We spent about $6500 pp on each RTW airfare and came away with more than a sunburn,  T-shirt and a faded glo-stick;  we got a priceless education and memories carved indelibly into our souls.

Next year consider pulling a Hirn and hitting a new location —  like China, where you will spend under $200 six people for four nights, and dinner of fresh dumplings for six was about $5.  Trying pulling that off at Burger King!

It’s not too early to begin planning your trip now.    Half the fun is the anticipation of the places you will visit.  And you have built-in educational opportunities.  Make it a family goal:  Save your money.  Clip coupons.  Cut back on eating out and buying junk.

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Save your $$ and build a bit of AWE into your trip!

Dawn