Family · Travel

Beyond Beautiful

His name was Basil.  Basil W. Hog.  He was born in South Africa and had a face only a mother could love.  A mother and Trenton.

Most of Africa’s wild animals don’t have cute catchy names.  Basil is officially referred to as something like a Pigmasorous Rex, I think.  Actually, I stand corrected:  his official name is Phacochoerus africanus, which is just as hard to pronounce.  So “Basil” it is.

trent warthogWe met Basil the Warthog when we were on safari in a South African wild reserve.  So often during our trip, we noticed Trenton was able to approach and get the attention of a lot of different animals.  In this case, it was good.  Other cases, not so much.

Once Trenton established the fact that he thought Basil had a nice personality, he moved right in despite the warthog’s alarming-looking under-bite and tusks.  Beyond beautiful!  Warthogs don’t usually attack humans, but we reminded the boys to always be respectful of the fact that these are wild animals.  Our guide was a great help in telling us what to do.

The Hirn family has always made new friends easily.   When it comes to facing situations that are out of the ordinary, Ron and I have always hoped our boys would be discerning, yet judgement-free, accepting of the differences of others.  From their experiences with the severely scarred Burn Camp kids, our boys know looks are a small part of what makes up a person.  In South Africa’s playground, our circle of interest got even bigger.

From Asia to Africa and beyond, we looked for beauty in the unusual.   To the warthog, aardvark and hyena, we give you tribute!

You’re beyond beautiful!1-warthog-gc590aBasil’s cousin Beau — the photogenic one in the family!

Dawn

Dear Dawn · Travel

Safari? Are you kidding?

Dear Dawn, I don’t want to offend you, but how could you have allowed your young kids to go on a Safari in Africa?  Just the thought of it freaks me out!  Was it some sort of kid-safe safari or did you do the camp-on-the-savanna thing?

Dear Freaked-out, thank you for your candor. Ron and I did a lot of research before we chose the right family safari.  We wanted the genuine experience but Colton, our eight-year-old, had a tendency to wander off so child-safety was a huge factor. We didn’t want to dummy the wild experience down to an amusement park where large men dress up in Wildebeest costumes either.

Cheetah and boyswarthogWith every adventure comes risk.   Often, I wrestle trying to be the best mom I can be while making sure other parents think I am.   And that just doesn’t work.  You have to be true to who you are while giving your child life’s best experiences.  Ron and I had always loved traveling and wanted our sons to find the joy we had found meeting people from other countries, living life as they did, and surrounding ourselves by strange and new experiences.

You cannot imagine the thrill of seeing a herd of gazelles charging across a field, spotting a rare black rhino in a group of white rhinos, the overwhelming feeling of knowing there is a majestic lioness prancing around your car, or feeling the ground shake beneath you at the approach of wild elephants.

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We found the perfect family-friendly safari in a private reserve.  Thousands of acres of natural land filled with thousands of wild things, including the Big Five.  Those who own these huge reserves are diligent to make certain these animals are cared for and well fed.   We stayed within the compound, cooked our own food, and twice each day they drove us out to see what the savanna had to offer.

No matter how hard we try to protect our children, they still can and do get hurt.  But don’t miss the experience of a lifetime because you are afraid to take steps out of the darkness into the light of God’s world.  You will return with enough great memories to see you through life – and your family’s stories grow better with each telling!

Dawn

Adventure with Engagement AWE · Travel

The Big Game

No.  I’m not talking about NC’s win over Gonzaga in last night’s NCAA Championship, nor the Patriots’ Super Bowl Win, nor the Cubs’ World Series Win, nor Trenton’s latest achievement on the Soccer field.

I’m talking about South Africa’s win as one of the safest countries to spot The Big Five Big Game!  You know: African Lion, African Elephant, Cape Buffalo, African Leopard, and Rhinoceros  (oh my)!

These guys made the list as “the most dangerous and difficult to hunt.”  Out of the top five, we saw four!  What a tremendous experience!

Safari Guides are the way to go, because they know things!    African bush elephants are able to hide in tall grass despite their size, and black and white Rhinos are on the endangered species list, so they are also difficult to spot.  And you may have to wait around all day to spot the African Lion.   It’s never smart to head off in your own direction or you may find yourself in a mess.  Cheetahs and Leopards look  similar.  But Cheetah’s have spots and Leopards have rosettes, and by the time you get close enough to determine which is which, you may find a sudden end to your safari.  And life!   Best to trust your guide on this one because up close and personal is not where you want to determine spot-shape!  Of all these dangerous animals, the Cape Buffalo is responsible for most big game hunters’ deaths.  Wounded or not – they attack often by ambush.

We weren’t able to see the Leopard, but four out of five isn’t bad.    And we felt our experience with Cheetahs out-shined a single glimpse of a Leopard.

Cheetah and boysYou can sit back in your comfy chair at home,  tune into the Animal Planet, Nat Geo or the Smithsonian Channel and share the photographer’s experience in viewing.  But we think you should head for South Africa and tell your own story.  Memories get better every year!

Dawn

Dear Dawn · Encouragement · Travel

Russian Red Tape

Dear Dawn, we’ve always wanted to go to Russia, but were told there were a lot of hoops to jump through.  Did Ron find this to be true when he booked you on the world trip?

Dear Hoops, Yes.  And we should all be thankful our countries care about our safety!   Most governments have tightened up independent foreign travel requirements.  Your best friend is the  US State Department and your US Passport – but you cannot get in or out of Russia without a visa as well.

Tourist visas are valid up to 30 days, so you should keep on schedule.  (You can enter and exit anytime during those dates).  Again this is an issue of doing your homework before you go.  Ron was our travel-booking Guru, but he let each of us be a part of the road we chose.  Is it worth the trouble?  DA!!


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Tyler,  Alexander Garden, St. Petersburg

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Beautiful Moscow.  And how do you get there?   Follow the yellow brick road..jpgGet your Passport, schedule your trip with your family, apply for your Visas and then just follow the Yellow Brick Road!

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Love to you and Russia,

Dawn, the family and Our BackPack!

Travel

Galoshes on the other foot!

One more word on Russia:  If you are a Russian planning to take a trip to America, you have just as much – maybe more to consider.  For just a second, put the Galoshes on the other foot!

Getting a tourist visa here is neither easy nor cheap.  As you know security has been tightened (and I say thankfully so).    My opinion is that all foreign visitation should be done ‘legally’, or not at all!  (There are really no stages to the word legal.  It’s like pregnant:  you are or you are not!)

 Once the Russian citizen plans a trip, these are the warnings they get about The Dangers of America:

1.Don’t flirt. US etiquette prohibits flirting with a woman who is not your girlfriend or wife.  Never look at her legs.  (Where is that written?)

2.Don’t get straight to the point when talking to an American.  Instead of       saying “You are wrong!”, say “I’m not sure I agree with that.”  (oooo, husbands could learn from Russians how well this works)

3.Don’t be freaked out when Americans put their feet up on stuff.  (AKA “we’re slobs?”)

4. Americans are taught from a young age that they’re awesome.  You must deal with this.  (. . . whatever!)

5. (My favorite!) Almost everywhere (in America) there are hidden cameras.  Everywhere!  Don’t smoke, don’t take up two parking spaces and make sure plastic, glass and paper disposables go in the right places.parking Russ.

  *According to www.mentalfloss.com/russian-travel-tips-visiting-america

Sometimes it takes wearing somebody else’s galoshes to realize how blessed and entitled Americans really are!

Get started planning your trip to Russia today!

Dawn, co-leader of the Hirn Tribe!

Travel

Nomophobia

Dear Dawn,   

My family has the ‘travel bug’.  (Don’t know whether to thank you or slap you!)    ha ha!   We’ve been saving our money and trying to plan this trip, transportation, great hostels, available food, and we’ve kept in contact with the US State Department for travel alerts.  It’s all coming together.   My greatest concern ( I’m embarrassed to say) is to be without my cell phone for the duration.  I guess I’m addicted, but it feels like I’m cutting off one arm.  How did you do it?”  

Dear Disconnected,  you are not the only one who could use some electronic rehab. This phobia even  has a name:  Nomophobia – fear of being without your mobile.   In part,  the purpose of our family trip was to get to spend quality time with our kids.  And we knew quality time ain’t sittin at a table eating dinner with everyone on his own device.

Back in 1779, Ned Ludd, took a stand against technology.   Convinced machinery would eventually take over his job, he smashed two time-saving machines at work.   His followers, the Luddites took up his cause arguing that technology replaces humans. I am no Luddite!  But I can tell you excess in anything destroys.  But seven months without mobiles was our choice.

Beside saving huge amounts of $$ on sim cards, here are a few of the benefits we enjoyed without cell phone service in the thirty countries we visited:

map skills.jpegWe practiced our map skills.India family.jpgWe found India!  And met a wonderful family who helped direct us.

Trieste Italy.jpgPolished our relationship skills, person-to-person.  Trieste, Italy

And eventually, we found our way home.  And we discovered,  being without cell phones for seven months enriched our experiences, made us more sensitive to those around us,  and strengthened our bond.

Someone once said:  “Life is what’s happening when your cell phone is charging.” Go experience real living!

Dawn

Family · Travel

We greet from St. Pete

Greetings from St. Petersburg, Russia   “Zdravstvuj”

DR Russia2.jpegTry wrapping your tongue around that one. Just say “zdrah-stvooy.”    Oh yeah, that’s much better.  LOL.

Our Russian sounded a little like we were clearing our throats.  But the Russian people were most gracious helping us with our pronunciation – or lack thereof – and they assured us they spoke good English.  (Salt in the wound!)

Yesterday in my Facebook post, I told you about St. Petersburg’s  shorter older buildings built around 1914. Because the builders, common people who dug by hand and carried  around dirt in the front of their shirts, were dying by thousands from disease and floods, they call this city:  “The city built on bones.”

The boys adapted nicely to our trivia facts.  Travel is far and above the best way to be educated!  But Colton, Trenton and Tyler reacted much more positively to the torture museums we found in Moscow and St. Petersburg.  Nothing like a good old fashioned horror story to get their motors going.

Torture Museum Gum?.jpegHere Colton, always the clown, thought the torturer reminded him of one of his teachers.  So he reluctantly offered to relinquish his gum.

Church of the Spilled blood Russia.jpgThe guys were equally intrigued by the Church of the Spilled Blood.  Colton and Trenton also spent time looking for ‘evidence,’ but noticed no ‘drippage’ from the buildings.   At some point in their lives they will attach their memory of St. Petersburg, to the famous people born here: writer, Dostoevski, to the composer, Tchaikovsky, to ballet dancers, Pavlova and Baryshnikov.  But for now, they are carried away by the treasures of blood and gore.  Let ’em learn at their own speed!

Dawn

Encouragement · Travel

Another letter from What if . . .

Dear Dawn: Okay, you got me through the what ifs about my kids missing out on school if we take a trip like yours. But I’ve got plenty of what ifs left regarding the safety of these countries.  You’re telling me you weren’t ever afraid?

Hi again, What if . . . Ha!  Of course I was afraid.  But when I’m telling my kids to overcome their fears, I can’t add a list of my exceptions.

If someone were to offer you a free trip for you and your family, is there someplace you would refuse to go?  (other than Somalia, Afghanistan, Iran, etc.)   Used to be Russia for me.  I’ve heard the cold war, communism stories – don’t need to see or be the evidence.  And even though the USSR had been broken up in 1991, in my mind I still saw ‘the enemy.’

And I didn’t want my kids to end up like this:

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Sad how we condition ourselves based upon our fears.  Eleanor Roosevelt lived by this motto:  Do one thing everyday that scares you.  Whoa.  I had years of fears to catch up with.  And as far as I could tell moms aren’t supposed to let kids see ‘em sweat!

When I marched forth into Russia with my comrades, I fully expected to see American-haters and men on buildings with Uzi’s pointed at my family.  But other than a few serious faces (how happy do you look in 16-degrees below Zero?), these are the things I noticed:

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Took courage to send my youngest into the throws of evil Russian school children. Joke’s on me!  Just as Jesus once said: “A little child shall lead them.” 

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Don’t let your fear of what could happen make nothing happen!

Start by doing a bit of investigation about the places and people that scare you most.  They also have children.

Dawn

Encouragement · Family · Travel

Baby steps

Somebody said:  You don’t have to see the whole staircase to take the first step.”    Wish it had been me.

Did you ever taste Blue Bell Pistachio/Almond Ice Cream? Maybe that’s not your thing, but there is bound to be something out there that blows your tastebuds wide open!  Once you find your own fabulous flavor, you just can’t wait to share it with others.    

 Ron and I had found that flavor in world travel.  For awhile we were stuck in grief over the loss of one of our children; but once the beauty of living set back in, we longed to introduce our remaining three boys to the flavor of wanderlust.

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Tuk Tuk ride Thailand
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Angkor Wat, Cambodia

Not ready for so big a bite?  Start small.  Baby steps!  One of the best benefits of discovering places with your family, is bonding. Bite off a small weekend get-away together in a city or state close by:  In Cherokee, Alabama find the Coon Dog Cemetery founded in 1937,  dedicated to the world’s greatest and luckiest coon dogs.  Over in Georgia,  you’ve got the Lunch Box Museum featuring 2000 lunch boxes, rare and otherwise.  Cumberland Island is 9,800 raw acres of wilderness, where the deer and the antelope play.  (Actually it’s armadillos, boars, alligators and feral horses.)   Or travel over to Louisiana to the Manchac Swamp cursed 100-years ago by a voodoo queen.  That’s the story anyway.

Any time away with your family is a baby step, and well worth the effort.

Might check out the book: Family on the Loose:  The Art of Traveling with Kids, 2012, Richards/Steel.  Rumble Books, Bellevue, WA.

Start small.  But start!

Somebody else once said:  “We travel not to escape life, but so that life won’t escape us.” And I’ve repeated those words one-thousand times.

Dawn

Family · Travel

Lighten your load

“Dear Dawn:  my family and I would love to do this ‘extended’ trip thing.  But ‘you know who’ would have to carry all the luggage and supplies.  How did you do it?”

Dear you-know-who: During our pre-trip planning we drummed it into our boys they would each be responsible for their own stuff.  This is a painful lesson for kids who remember the days when tears would allow them to be scooped up into their parents’ arms and carried.  As you grow up, you realize: tears only bring rewards to actors.

Our daily city outings entailed loads of walking laced with public transportation which is economical and culturally educational. Can’t learn about a place in a taxi. We used 2 ‘day-packs’ to hold our day supplies like snacks, ponchos, sanitizer, kleenex, etc. and we’d alternate who carried them. (Colton carried Ryan’s Pokemon Backpack to “protect him.”) 

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Everyone was given one roller/carry-on pack to fit their clothes-2 short, 2 pant, 4 shirts, sweater, undies- for 7 months that ‘they’ were required to carry(we navigated 20 flights) and we had a large family supply case(Ron carried).  We didn’t dress for style, but for function.  The Norwegians say:  “There is no such thing as bad weather; just bad clothing,” and we agree.  Russia required layers.  And layers!  Often we dressed for warmth with summer gear as layer number one!

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Here’s the deal:  Before you leave, carry a practice backpack.  Load it up with what you need and carry it everywhere you go.  Give it a couple weeks and you will no doubt jettison the load down to exactly what is essential.

Heavy load Russia.jpegTeach your kids to stand on their own two feet.  And when it comes time to give someone else a lift, they’ll be ready!

Lighten your load!

Dawn