The theme of my life used to be, “If you want a job done right, do it yourself.”
And if I’m honest, and I am, it’s still mostly the theme of my life.
You get what I’m saying, right?
When I think about all my years of mothering, I realize that most of it was on me.
In other words, partner or no partner, life is a ‘’Do it yourself.’’
So, what in the heck am I doing pushing all of us to make this “important’’ move from “I” to “We”?
Is it even workable in a mother’s life?
Most of us want a partner who’s really a partner.
That means moving from “I” to “We”.
Which necessitates moving from “I” to “We”.
But I hesitate to say that because it might turn into one more thing on our ‘to-do’ list.
Then I remember we are traveling together on this Adventure, and the way I look at it, there’s no mountain we can’t climb.
Here’s what I know for sure.
Not even Jesus could “do it himself.”
He had to find 12 friends.
These are my thoughts today. Is there anything–dreams, thoughts, adventures–that we share today?
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