This week our family has been without hot water, which gives us each a new reply to the question: “Who ya gonna call?” Funny, how an older home can provide so many challenging opportunities! Adventure With Engagement? The only engagement we have had this week is an exchange of yelps during cold water shower blasts.
Since we returned from our world adventure, we have gone soft. We walk into a bathroom fully expecting an elevated potty , a shower with warm water, soap and a towel to dry off. We expected the ‘unexpected’ when we traveled. Hot water and a porcelain toilet are rare commodities where we visited. But, we didn’t go for the luxuries. Would have cut the Adventure part in half!
Ron and I had done this before. The practically-expired camper we purchased in Germany, didn’t have hot water. Ever. So we never expected it. But in Birmingham, Alabama, USA, we fully expect the hot water to eventually come pouring out to grace our bodies with warmth. Last week we wasted a lot of water waiting for the cold water in the shower to turn hot. It never did.
We are raising soft kids. I recognize this because my parents raised me. I expect certain things as a given in a home. Happiness in life involves flexibility — adapting to difficult situations. Two suggestions:
- Travel to a third-world country at least once in your life so you and your family can see how lucky you are to have the luxury of fresh, warm or cold water at the turn of a knob, electricity at the flip of a switch and gasoline at the crank of a pump. Softies expect everything to work. Toughen up!
2.When you lose power or hot water, don’t gripe and complain too long.
It does no good, and it makes you look soft. AWE! Enter into the family competition – “Don’t tell me you’re AFRAID of cold water??”
Now THAT’S engagement!
Have an adventurous weekend!