What I want to show you today is how Ron and I are making the leap between “I”
and “we” in our family.
Our quality time with our children happens without a screen staring back at us.
Sometimes we play cards and board games together (my favorite is “Bananagrams”).
We try to have weekly family nites, and one-on-one ‘date nights’ with each one of them.
We are consciously and constantly working to fill their “love buckets,” and to honor their life as it is, right where they are.
It feels natural for parents to insist that their child meet them at their level. (“Grow up!” or “You’re my little man.”)
But children aren’t adults.
Another thing we try to do at our house, and, believe me, it’s not as easy as it sounds, is to bend down to our children’s level, get eye-to-eye with them.
Life at its best is lived horizontally, not vertically as if parenting is a ‘’pyramid scheme,’’ lived from the top down.
That starts with the copilots of the family, the two adult partners. We must relate to each other on the level of mutual respect.
And frankly, I’m often too tired to do what I know is best.
We’ve all made our mistakes, you and I, said things we wish we could take back, but here’s the bottom line: it’s never too late to make a happy childhood, even if you’re kids are grown.
And it’s not too late for us to have a happy childhood either.
These are my thoughts today. Is there anything–dreams, thoughts or adventures–that I’ve missed?